You don’t need to look for greener grass. Three out of four women are unhappy with the way they look or feel and 9 out of 10 women that answer our “I Love My” question without us guiding them, answer with a loving “family, kids, life, etc.”. It is clear that women tie the way they feel to their circumstances and image. That’s why diet and self-help books are best sellers, and is the number one category for book retailers. Many of us women think we need to change ourselves in order to be happier. But, self-help programs aren’t the answer, at least not at first.