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Reasons Not to Diet and The Secret to Still Lose Weight

Reasons NOT to Diet
Written by Elaine Morales

For greater weight loss success, try pleasurable alternatives to dieting. Join author Elaine Morales as she shares “My Un-Dieting Weight Loss Secrets.”

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It is my personal and professional opinion that restrictive diets are no bueno, especially if you want to lose weight, be healthier, and experience daily bliss.

I have stumbled on many reasons to eschew diets. Here are my Top 5.

Diets:

  • Put us in a stress-state that is counter-productive to weight loss AND sucks the fun out of life.
  • Foster the on program/off program, good day/bad day, right choice/wrong choice dichotomies that contribute to binging behavior.  I have a stomach ache just thinking about it.
  • Promote the idea that there is something wrong with us that needs to be fixed.  Believe me, you are good enough right now, and only getting better!
  • Presume that there is some outside expert who knows more about our bodies and what we should be eating than we do.  We have the wisdom of the ages in our bodies, if we just slow down, get quiet, and listen.  Trust yourself.
  • And the big #5:  Data collected by all types of data experts reveal that in the past ten years, the amount of money Americans spent on diets and weight loss programs doubled from $30 billion to $60 billion, while the obesity rate INCREASED from 31% to 35.7%

What’s the definition of insanity again?

I would like to propose a better approach, one that doesn’t involve any spreadsheets or weigh-ins.  Here are three steps to get you in sync with your ideal weight.

Relax.  Since stress is the enemy of weight loss, we can create a friendly environment for weight management by relaxing…both throughout the day and before and during meals.  Start by sitting down to eat, without distractions, taking five slow, deep breaths, and saying a few words of thanks before every meal or snack.

Focus on quality.  The quality of your food and the quality of your dining experiences will determine the quality of your body and health.  Take a few minutes to consider where you rate:  is the food you are eating First Class (makes me feel AMAZING, the best of the best, incredible quality, beautiful style, serves me above and beyond, my ultimate lifestyle, reflects my purpose in life) or Economy Class (Barely acceptable, not by choice, cheapest, not what I wanted, messy or embarrassing, making do)?  Also consider the environment you are eating in.  Is it peaceful or noisy?  Beautiful or ugly?  Clean or dirty?

If you are not First Class all the way, begin to make small upgrades.  Consume more home cooked meals.  Visit a local farmers’ market.  Eat from your good china, even if it’s not Thanksgiving!

Take pleasure.  Permanent, positive change is powered by love and pleasure.  We should feel good about what we eat, and enjoy it thoroughly.  Guilty pleasure is an oxymoron.  When not relishing your meals, indulge your senses in other ways.  Take a lavender-scented mineral bath, wear silky underwear, take a walk in the woods or along the ocean.  Carve out time each and every day to do something pleasurable.

Slowing down, relaxing more, cooking your own food, and having more fun will not lead to rapid fat loss.  I cannot promise that you will lose 20 pounds in time for your Caribbean vacation.

However, a relaxed and pleasurable approach to eating and to life does offer a permanent cure for weight loss woes and yo-yo dieting.  I promise if you invest time and attention into HOW you are eating and whether your food and meals support your values and highest vision for yourself, your family and the world, you will one day have the body and life of your dreams.


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About the author

Elaine Morales

Elaine Morales, speaker, author, and founder of Not Just a Daydream health and life transformation coaching, helps busy, stressed out women to break free of self-defeating patterns of dieting and binging and achieve their ideal weight while enjoying food and loving life.

Elaine has been the catalyst for hundreds of life transformations by inspiring and teaching people how to implement nutrition and lifestyle habits that support their personal vision and goals.

A Princeton University graduate, she received her training as a holistic health counselor from the Institute for Integrative Nutrition in New York City.

Fun Facts About Elaine:
* She is the direct descendent of a Catholic saint.
* She appeared on the reality television show, Wife Swap.
* Recently, Elaine took up bodybuilding and won two trophies as a figure competitor at the age of 43. (Despite having failed gym in high school)

Visit Elaine at www.notjustadaydream.com

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