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4 Ways to Kill a Relationship with Your Mobile Device

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Naked photos aside, another way to injure a relationship is by exposing too much information, or the well-known TMI. You’ve already lost intimacy with your beau when the first time you told him you loved him was with a smiley-faced text instead of with an in-person hug.

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Between 68 to 76 percent of 25 to 34-year-olds in the Time study said they used text messaging to flirt. That flirting could get you into big trouble unless it’s directed to your boyfriend and girlfriend. Catch the signs NOW and join Amber as he provides tips on how technology can kill your relationship.


Written by Amber Arneson

Pillow talk with your beau can be mighty tough when there’s a third party propped near your pillow. For the majority of modern folks, that third party is some type of mobile device. A Time magazine mobility poll found 68 percent of the respondents slept with their mobile devices next to their bed and an additional 16 percent needed it at least somewhere in the bedroom. Killing off intimacy in the bedroom isn’t the only way your mobile device can kill off your relationship.

Flubbed Up Flirting

Between 68 to 76 percent of 25 to 34-year-olds in the Time study said they used text messaging to flirt. That flirting could get you into big trouble unless it’s directed to your boyfriend and girlfriend. Possible faux pas include sending him a flirty text headed with another guy’s name, having him find frisky messages from other men on your own device or sending him a message thanking him heartily for last night’s beautiful birthday gifts after you told him you’d be spending last night at your mother’s house. The same holds true on his end, as one more stat to keep in mind is the 30 to 36 percent of 25 to 34-year-olds who said they used texting to coordinate or commit adultery.

Young woman texting while eating sushi in a restaurant

Naked Truth

Sending racy pictures are another way to get in trouble with your device, and the practice is only slightly less popular than the digital flirting. A little more than half of the folks aged 25 to 34 said they sent suggestive pictures through their mobile or electronic devices, Time noted, all of which can serve for potential embarrassing fodder following a breakup. Your relationship can again be deeply marred by sending your provocative pix to the wrong recipient, especially if you happen to send it to your guy’s mother or father.

The Disastrous Digital Date

If you plan to take your smartphone out during a date, you may as well leave your boyfriend at home. You may already know it’s rudely obnoxious to whip out of your phone and start chatting away when you’re eating out at a restaurant, even though 36 percent of Americans admitted to almost always doing so.

What you may not know, however, is that the mere presence of your cell phone can put a big damper on the chances of any meaningful conversation between you and your dinner date. A study published in the Journal of Social and Personal Relationships found that conversations became less meaningful, less intimate, less trusting and less empathetic with a cell phone simply sitting in view.

TMI Syndrome

Naked photos aside, another way to injure a relationship is by exposing too much information, or the well-known TMI. You’ve already lost intimacy with your beau when the first time you told him you loved him was with a smiley-faced text instead of with an in-person hug. The world’s addiction to connectivity, coupled with the rapid rate of communication sharing through social media sites, makes it possible to broadcast way too many intimate details about your love life, your deep secrets or your fights.

With Cisco reporting that the number of mobile-connected devices are expected to surpass the world’s population in 2013, there’s sure to be a whole lotta people listening in.

Identity Magazine is all about empowering women to get all A’s in the game of life – Accept. Appreciate. Achieve.™ Every contributor and expert answer the Identity 5 questions in keeping with our theme. As a team, we hope to inspire and motivate ourselves and inspire you to get all A’s.

What have you accepted in your life that took time, physically or mentally?
I have accepted that I will not be young and healthy forever, but I try my best to live my life to the fullest every day.

What do you appreciate about yourself and within your life?
I appreciate my creativity all the love I have in my life.

What is one of your most rewarding achievements in life? What goals do you still have?
My most rewarding achievement is being able to wake up every morning and go to a job I love

What is your not-so-perfect way? What imperfections and quirks create your Identity?
I can be very detail oriented and sometimes it causes me to be a little late on deadlines

How would you complete the phrase “I Love My…?”
I love my husband, pets and cozy home!


Author Amber Arneson is an athlete through and through. She has competed in triathlons all over the country and loves to write about health, wellness, and green living.

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Identity is a National online magazine that empowers women to Accept. Appreciate. Achieve.™ Through a hand-selected team of writers and expert Q & A columns, our mission is to empower women to get all A’s in the game of life by accepting, appreciating, and achieving. We believe that once you accept a situation or circumstance and show gratitude and appreciation for what you currently have, it is then that you can achieve at a greater level within yourself and your life.

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